Recipes for Us

Not-So Butter Chicken

We’ve had a pretty rough fall already. The girls have been taking turns being sick, and Ali and I can’t coordinate our schedules to do something as simple as take a trip to the pumpkin patch. This bad luck carried over to our monthly dinner date as well. I ended up making this recipe twice because the first dinner was sabotaged by sickness. But, what this tells you is that it was worth eating twice in the span of a month!

I found this recipe for butter chicken at and it looked like a winner to me. It is quite flavorful and difficult to resist seconds, but it just doesn’t taste like butter chicken — hence the “Not-So Butter Chicken” title.


Black Bean-Avocado Enchiladas with Mole Sauce and Blackberry Margaritas

Last year, I attended a work training where I met a good-looking man who told me about a cookbook comprised of only dishes that were made of chocolate. Sounds like the stuff of every little girl’s dreams, right? Okay, maybe just mine. The thought of making chocolate part of my main meal and having it be acceptable has stayed with me since. This month, I decided to make the dream a reality with the Mexican dish Mole.

Mole is intimidating. It calls for several ingredients, not all of which you are likely to have or likely to find easily. I must confess, I cheated a bit. My biggest concern was the ancho chiles. A lot of recipes called for other kinds as well, but I couldn’t even bring myself to consider them. I knew I would have to make another trip on the weekend to a different grocery store. It was something I was mentally prepared to do until I saw it. Right there on an end cap in Kroger. Ancho chili powder. I was saved! No other grocery store, no drying of the chili or picking out seeds. Just a touch of guilt. I could live with that. I should also mention that I chose a recipe that already made the recipe simpler. But, I digress.

A touch of mom brain also plagued me on this shopping trip, and I forgot a couple of ingredients. Sigh. I made do without them, and I must say it turned out pretty good. Actually really good. I learned not to judge Mole on the first bite. With all the flavors, the taste can only be described as complex. Give it two or three bites before you really decide.

Skip to the Blackberry Margaritas

Black Bean Avocado Enchiladas with Mole SauceBlack Bean Avocado Enchiladas with Mole Sauce

Ingredients for the Mole:

6 tbsp Ancho Chile Pepper
1/3 cup sliced almonds
1 small onion, chopped
2 tomatoes, peeled and chopped
1/4 cup raisins
1 tbsp sesame seeds
1 clove garlic, minced
1/4 tsp cinnamon
1/4 tsp ground clove
1/4 tsp oregano
1/4 tsp cumin
1/4 tsp ground coriander
1 oz Baker’s unsweetened baking chocolate , melted
1 cup water
2 tbsp vegetable oil

3/4 tsp salt
1/4 tsp ground anise

Ingredients for the Enchiladas:

1 can of black beans
2 ripe avocados, diced
1 small red onion, diced
1 tsp cumin
1 clove garlic, minced
1 package queso fresco


  1. My suggestion is to make the Mole first. It’s the most time consuming of the two. Begin by peeling the tomatoes and chopping both those and the onions.
  2. Saute onions in vegetable oil until soft. Add the garlic when onions are almost ready. When the onions are nice and soft, add the spices (not the sesame seeds). Be sure to stir the mixture consistently to avoid burning it.
  3. Put tomatoes, onions, sesame seeds, raisins, almonds, and chocolate in blender. Blend.
  4. Add spice mixture to the blender. Blend thoroughly.
  5. Done! See, gathering the ingredients really is the hardest part. Now, on to the enchiladas.
  6. Combine all ingredients in a bowl (minus the cheese and tortilla) and thoroughly mix together. Not knowing how mole would heat in the oven, I mixed mine in a pan and heated the ingredients to be sure the insides on the enchiladas would be hot.
  7. Spoon mixture and queso fresco into tortillas to create the enchilada. Place them in a long baking dish. I used small tortillas and a 9×9 baking dish.
  8. Top with mole sauce and bake at 400 degrees for 10 to 15 minutes. Be sure to keep a close eye on the mole. It will burn, which makes it even worse looking than it already does. Trust me, it tastes great!

Black Bean Enchilada recipe adapted from: Creme de la Crumb
Mole recipe adapted from: Baked Bree

Blackberry MargaritasBlackberry Margarita


6-8 limes
1 cup of sugar
8 oz Triple Sec
8 oz silver Tequila
7 cups of water


  1. Muddle blackberries in the bottom of a pitcher. Add sugar and 1 cup of water. Mix thoroughly.
  2. Add the juice from the limes. I have a handheld citrus juicer, which is fantastic. It gets all the juice with half the effort!
  3. Add the triple sec and tequila.
  4. Start with half of the remaining amount of water. Add 1 cup at a time until you reach the taste you are looking for.
  5. Enjoy!

Ravioli in Brown Butter and Zucchini Salad with Lemon-Herb Vinaigrette

This dinner was a hit, and I will certainly keep the recipes handy. It was easy enough that I would actually consider making on a weeknight! Of course, I will not serve the two dishes together again. Some dishes just don’t mesh well. In this case, the ravioli had a fall feel to it—comforting, a bit on the heavier side. The salad felt like spring—light and crunchy, minty fresh. Opposites do attract, but I think these two are better off staying single. Of course, that didn’t stop us from gobbling both up!

Ravioli in Brown Butter

  • 2 teaspoons extra-virgin olive oilRavioli in Brown Butter
  • 1 pound zucchini, thinly sliced
  • 1 9-ounce package four-cheese ravioli
  • 1/4 cup butter
  • 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
  • 1/2 cup almonds, chopped
  • 2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar
  • 2 tablespoons fresh mint


Heat the olive oil over medium-high heat in a large nonstick skillet. Add zucchini and cook until tender, about 4 minutes, stirring occasionally. Take out the zucchini and set aside.

  1. Cook ravioli according to package instructions and drain.
  2. In the skillet, heat butter and salt over medium heat, until butter is browned, about 3 minutes.
  3. Add almonds; cook and stir until toasted, about 2 minutes.
  4. Add zucchini and toss to coat.
  5. Add ravioli, balsamic vinegar, and mint; stir gently to coat.

Recipe from Better Homes and Garden.


Zucchini Salad with Lemon-Herb Vinaigrette


  • 2 medium zucchini, sliced thinlyZucchini Salad with Lemon Herb Vinegarette
  • 1 tablespoon canola oil
  • Salt and freshly ground black pepper
  • 1 tablespoon Dijon mustard
  • 1/4 cup freshly squeezed lemon juice
  • 1 teaspoon finely grated lemon zest
  • Honey
  • 2 tablespoons finely chopped fresh parsley, plus leaves for garnish
  • 1/2 cup extra-virgin olive oil
  • Wedge of Romano, for shaving
  • 2 tablespoons toasted pine nuts
  • Fresh mint leaves, torn


  1. Heat canola oil in medium skillet on medium heat. Add zucchini and season with salt and pepper to taste. Cook until slightly wilted, then set aside.
  2. Whisk together the Dijon mustard, lemon juice, lemon zest, honey to taste, salt and pepper to taste, and parsley in a small bowl. Slowly, whisk in the olive oil until emulsified.
  3. Drizzle the vinaigrette over the zucchini and let it marinate for 15 minutes at room temperature. Top with shaved cheese, pine nuts, parsley and mint leaves.Recipe adapted from Bobby Flay at Food Network.


Shepherd’s Pie and Pistachio Pudding Cake

Our first failure. Well, sort of. I don’t consider it a true failure—that requires a colossal disaster, which I am perfectly capable of. This was beneath my potential and therefore more along the lines of a trial failure.

It had been a long week, but we had to have our dinner on Friday. There was no other day this month that worked for our families. In honor of St. Patrick’s Day, I decide on an Irish theme—shepherd’s pie, fancy green drinks, and pistachio pudding cake. On the side, I added chunky cinnamon applesauce and cottage cheese. Great, right? Well, it would have been, but I cheated, and as Ali reminded me several times throughout the evening, cheaters never win.

Quick and easy was the name of my game, and I thought I was pretty clever in using an adapted version of shepherd’s pie. Ali was kind enough to back-seat chef me and question everything that came out of a can or box. “That’s Fey food. Our dinners are supposed to be more than that. You’re going to have to do this over.” Yeah, yeah. So maybe she was right, but no way was I going to tell her that. I was cheating for a reason after all. Sheesh.

So, without further ado, following are the recipes, which even Ali agreed were tasty, that I used to cheat. But first, allow me to point out that this was also the first meal that the Fey, including the baby (with her blended version), enjoyed as well.

Shepherd’s Pie


  • 1 lb ground beef (I substituted vegetarian ground meat)
  • 1 medium onion, chopped
  • 1 small can peas
  • 1 small can carrots (Ali doesn’t like cooked carrots, so I substituted corn)
  • ½ cup honey barbecue sauce
  • ⅓ cup ketchup
  • 1 pkg refrigerated mashed potatoes
  • ½ tsp paprika


  1. Preheat oven to 350°.
  2. Brown the meat with the onion in a large skillet. (Since I substituted vegetarian ground meat, I sautéed the onion in olive oil and added the “meat.”)
  3. Turn off the heat, and add the vegetables, barbecue sauce, and ketchup.
  4. Put into a greased 1 ½ quart baking dish.


5.  Spread the mashed potatoes on top and sprinkle with paprika.


6.  Bake for 30–35 minutes.


Optional: Add shredded cheese on top before serving.

Pistachio Pudding Cake


  • 1 pkg yellow cake mixPistachio Pudding Cake
  • 2 pkgs instant pistachio pudding mix
  • 4 eggs
  • 1 cup club soda
  • ½ cup canola oil
  • 1 cup chopped walnuts, divided
  • 1 cup heavy whipping cream
  • ¾ cup 2% milk
  • 2 tsp confectioner’s sugar


  1. In a large bowl, combine the cake mix, 1 package of pudding mix, eggs, club soda, and oil. Beat on low speed for 30 seconds, then beat on medium for 2 minutes. Stir in ½ cup walnuts.
  2. Pour into a greased and floured 10-inch fluted tube pan.
  3. Bake at 350° for 40–45 minutes.
  4. Cool for ten minutes before removing from pan to a wire rack to cool completely.
  5. In a large bowl, beat the cream, milk, 1 package of pudding mix, and confectioners’ sugar on high until stiff peaks form.
  6. Frost the cake. Sprinkle with remaining walnuts. (In our case, the kids threw the walnuts at the cake to see how many would stick.)

Minted Sake and Pineapple Cooler

This is what I had planned to make, but I didn’t have a sieve. I don’t easily give up and tried several workarounds but none really worked: taping a coffee filter to a bowl, straining the concoction through a garlic press, you know, the usual.


  • 1½ cups loosely packed mint leaves (about 1 ounce)
  • 1 cup sake
  • ¼ cup sugar
  • 3 cans (6 oz each) pineapple juice, divided
  • ¼ cup fresh lime juice
  • Pineapple slices (optional)


  1. Combine mint, sake, and sugar in a blender; process for 2 minutes or until mint is very finely chopped.
  2. Strain sake mixture through a fine sieve over a bowl; discard solids.
  3. Stir in 2 cans pineapple juice and lime juice. Cover and chill.
  4. Pour the remaining 1 can pineapple juice into a zip-top plastic bag; seal. Lay the bag flat in the freezer; freeze 1 hour or until frozen.
  5. Combine the sake mixture and frozen pineapple juice in a blender; process 1 minute or until thoroughly combined.
  6. Pour about ¾ cup pineapple mixture into each glass, and let stand 1 minute before serving. Garnish with pineapple slices, if desired.


St. Patrick’s Day Drinks


  • Lime sherbetSt Patricks day drinks
  • Lemon-lime soda


  1. Fill glass about two-thirds full with soda.
  2. Add one or two scoops of sherbet and let sit for about ten minutes.
  3. Gently stir the drink, wait for it to settle, and serve.

Adult version: Substitute white wine or champagne for the soda.


Deviled Crab Bowls

For dinner this month, I had to redeem myself. Considering that Ali complimented my umpteenth failure at cooking asparagus, I think my goal was met. (Or maybe I just plied her with too much wine.) Regardless, the deviled crab was nothing like I’d ever tasted, and I think we both agreed we would like the experience again. Well, with properly cooked asparagus next time. Paired with a Riesling and enjoyed on the deck while the Fey played in the yard, this dinner made for a delicious evening.


2 small spherical loaves of your choice of bread
1/4 c chopped green onions, divided
1/2 c dry white wine, divided
2 garlic cloves, minced
2 tbsp mayonnaise
1 tbsp ground mustard
1/8 tsp ground red pepper
1/8 tsp paprika
1/2 lb lump crabmeat
1/3 c reduced-sodium chicken broth, divided
1/4 c finely chopped shallots
2 tbsp white wine vinegar
1 bay leaf
1 tsp cornstarch
1 tbsp butter
1/2 tsp lemon juice
1/8 tsp black pepper


  1. Preheat oven to 375°.
  2. Hollow out each loaf and place bread shells on a baking sheet. Bake at 375° for 5 minutes. Remove from oven and set aside. (I used the bread “scraps” for a delicious humus and avocado snack the next day.)
  3. In a medium saucepan, mix 2 tablespoons of green onions, 1/4 cup wine, and garlic, and bring to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer for about 2 minutes. Remove from heat.
  4. Stir in mayonnaise, mustard, red pepper, and paprika.
  5. Add 2 tablespoons chopped green onions and crabmeat; stir in gently.
  6. Divide the crab mixture evenly into bread shells. Bake at 375° for 15 minutes or until thoroughly heated.
  7. In a small saucepan, combine 2 tablespoons broth, shallots, 1/4 cup wine, vinegar, and bay leaf, and bring to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer for about 3 minutes. Drain through a fine sieve into a bowl. Discard solids.
  8. Return liquid to the saucepan. Stir in remaining broth and cornstarch with a whisk. Bring to a boil and cook 1 minute, stirring constantly. Remove from heat.
  9. Add butter, stirring until butter melts. Stir in lemon juice and black pepper.
  10. Pour over warm deviled crab bowls and serve.

Recipe found at